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How many things do you do?

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Hey All,

Today, I am going to share with you a thought/quote – words that inspired me so much that the minute I read it i picked up my book and started to think of ways to adapt it in my life.


We all want to do great things , become great people world famous and amazingly rich with fascinating looks . Three huge things but in order to achieve them we need to do a lot of smaller things.

To be famous you need to develop and grow as a person of good character , do wonderful work  , achieve great success in your career , serve people and many more…

Lets take a few of them one by one

1) To be a person of great character you need to be sincere and constantly feed your mind with positive good thoughts and develop the character you want to be proud of.

2) To be rich you need to find a sincere way to earn good money , save them really well and invest it cleverly to increase your wealth.

3) To have fascinating looks you need to take very good care of your body , exercise regularly. You need to live a stress free life without any worries  so that you can stay fresh and alive.

Now, lets do the counting. I listed 9 basic things you need to do in order to become a great person and this is less than 0.01% .

If you look carefully each of these 9 things can again be broken down to smaller things to do. If you continue the flow you will end up having about 1000 little things or more that you need to do in order to reach your aim.

Most of us look at at the huge number and back off. But let me tell you a secret  , these 1000 little things that you will be doing are absolutely simple and very easy. The only difficult thing is to keep up to that commitment and passion  till the end.

In a nutshell,

->Decide your aim in life

->Identify three main goals needed to reach your aim

->Break each of them into smaller goals

->Break the smaller goals further down and so on until you are left with tiny little goals that are simple and easy to do.

->Most Important point Keep that passion and commitment alive throughout.

That’s all for today. I hope you are inspired to start thinking about the great things you want to do and the little things you have to do( in order to become great). Leave a comment in the comment section below and let us all know.

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Spread the LOVE

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Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.

Mother Theresa

Valentine’s Day is round the corner, and for me Valentine’s Day is the day of LOVE. Not just love between you and your soulmate,

it’s Love between you and your



family members



business partners

even your ENEMIES.

This Valentine’s Day spread love among all around you. Be grateful for all those around you good people or bad people. Yes!!! The BAD people as well. Because If it wouldn’t have been for them you wouldn’t have learnt your lesson. You wouldn’t have known to differentiate between the good and the bad , the right and the wrong.

This Valentine’s Day take the trouble to speak /message each and every one you love , and let them know how much special they are to you :).


I would be writing beautiful letters for my loved one’s this Valentine’s Day. How would you do it? Put in some creativity and spread love in some unique way. Let me know your way in the comment section below 🙂

Encourage others TO DO THE SAME. Inspire others to SPREAD THE LOVE. Share this post with all your friends.

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Ask Sthuthi Episode – 2

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Welcome !!! To the second episode on “Ask Sthuthi”.  Today’s question comes from a beautiful mother 🙂 


Hi Sthuthi

Five months back I delivered a healthy baby girl. My husband works in a different country and I live alone. It is very difficult to handle the baby alone . How can u help me on this ??????????



Well , the question was a little ambiguous for me so I followed up and discovered a beautiful mother with the most beautiful baby I have ever seen :).

We spoke for hours altogether and figured out a way she could handle her situation.

For the benefit of other mothers like her , I have 2 great strategies to help you get past the emotional challenges of motherhood.

Strategy 1: Ask for help

You my believe in being independent. But trust me there is absolutely no person available who isn’t dependent on others. We all depend others for various things . So there’s nothing wrong in asking for help when you are so much in need. I am sure you will find people with lovely souls to help you out. It could be your friends , relatives , neighbors , anyone whom you can trust. It is for your baby. And don’t you worry, someday, you too will get lovely opportunities to show them how grateful you are and help them out when they are facing difficult situations.

Strategy 2: Me time

Please set aside time for yourself. You are the most IMPORTANT person. If you are not stable physically as well as mentally you will definitely not have enough strength to cope up. At least 10 minutes of meditation every day will give you enough emotional strength to get going for the remaining 23 hrs 50 min. For new mothers this time MUST come at a time when your baby is asleep.

If your medical conditions hold good you could indulge in really great physical exercise as well.

NOW, Lets all help each other. If you like this episode don’t forget to share it with your friends/lovely mothers/new mothers/. If you are a lovely mother too and have faced similar issues in the past , let us know how you have coped with it in the comment section below.

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How to achieve success – 3 Simple Strategies

Have you ever heard of the saying “Do your best and GOD will do the rest?” Well, I have heard it, over and over again. I even remember, back in my school days, deciding to study as much as possible and leaving the possibility of an easy question paper in GOD’s hands.

Not quite sure If I know what the quote meant back then, but now , I do.

And I am pleased to share it with you. Here are 3 IMPORTANT yet simple strategies I use to achieve success


Strategy No. 1

Give 101% attention on your work and DO your best. Perform excellently. Live in the moment no matter what you do.

[ Pssst.. to learn more about living in the moment check out this post]

Strategy No.2

Be persistent and keep doing your work excellently. Never give up. EVER. Persistence is the key.

Strategy No.3

Forget about success and money. The more you worry and concentrate on them the lesser you focus on your work and the you end up working less excellently.

Here’s how I applied these strategies on my blog:

I FOCUS on creating excellent content for my blog. I am PERSISTENT enough to compulsorily publish a post every week. And I will do so for the unforeseeable future, even though I hardly get any comments and likes for it , hence I have FORGOTTEN about success 😀

In a nutshell , focus on your work , do your work excellently and with persistence, success and money will eventually come to you.

It is important to note that these strategies are not all that requires to achieve success. There is no particular path to success. However, these three strategies are essential, stress free and proven to be very effective.

Last but not the least leave a comment below and let me know which strategies you employ to achieve success 🙂